"Mind the Gap"

It's a phrase used on trains when crossing from one train car to another. 

When I look back over the past year of my life, I think I forgot about the gap. 

I was going from one point in my life to another, 

with the high speed commotion of everyone else's life happening around me. 

When I realized that gap was there, that I was standing on the middle connectors of the train car wibbling and wobboling around trying to figure heads or tails of which way I was going. 

After one crazy first year of college, sorting out family issues, and finally being "official" 

(I don't really understand this official thing, do I need a license to date someone or something? It's just a decision you make together)

Well, 

I am now 

HERE in life. 

Yes, I remember it's there, but it doesn't bother me as much.

.....and I don't really mind the gap anymore.